May 21, 2017

May 17, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

 In July 2016 I celebrated the Mass of Christian Burial for a former parishioner of St. Sebastian’s, Mr. Robert Barry. In recent years Mr. Barry moved to the state of Connecticut. Believe it or not, the rules for assisted living are much more accommodating to people’s needs.

Mr. Robert Barry received his sacraments at St. Sebastian’s parish. He attended our parish school when we had a parish school.

I believe it is good pastoral practice to always be kind to former parishioners. I believe if the parish can meet their needs we should. And so when Mr. Barry died, his  niece called and asked if we could celebrate his Mass of Christian Burial at St. Sebastian’s. I immediately said yes.

At the cemetery his niece told me Mr. Barry loved St. Sebastian’s parish very much and that I would be hearing from her. Ten months have passed since Mr. Barry’s funeral. The parish has been contacted from his niece.

Mr. Barry has designated ‘Fifty thousand dollars ($50,000) to the Church of Saint Sebastian, a non-profit organization with a place of worship in Providence, Rhode Island, for its general tax-exempt purposes.’

On behalf of St. Sebastian parish I want to thank Mr. Robert Barry and his family. I ask all our parishioners to keep Mr. Barry in our prayers. I thank God for his generosity in remembering our parish in his will.

Monsignor  Montecalvo


May 14, 2017

May 17, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

 The 2017 Catholic Charity Appeal runs through June. But I would like to conclude our parish’s in-pew solicitation at the end of May. As of today our parish has raised $68,734.00. We are $11,088.00 short of our goal.

For your convenience (forgive me if you have already contributed to the 2017 Catholic Charity Appeal) an envelope is included with this bulletin.  This envelope can be used to make your 2017 Catholic Charity Appeal donation. Complete all the information asked for on the envelope and return it next Sunday. Just place the Catholic Charity Appeal envelope  along with your regular budget envelopes next Sunday.

As you know the Catholic Charity Appeal is the major source of funding for the Diocese of Providence. The Catholic Charity fund supports numerous ministries and programs throughout the Diocese. For example, the social service ministries provide direct support to the poor, the hungry, and the homeless, to immigration and refugee services, and emergency rent and medical aid.

Without your financial assistance the needs of many people in the state of Rhode Island will not be met.

If you have already made a pledge or donation to the Catholic Charity Appeal, I thank you. If you have not, please consider using the envelopes in this week’s bulletin and make a pledge or

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Monsignor  Montecalvo


May 7, 2017

May 2, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

 I want to share a letter I received from Fr. Rodrigues of the Bishop’s Office inviting you to celebrate a day in honor of Mary.

“Dear Monsignor,

      As you are aware Bishop Tobin has announced that in the Diocese of Providence, the calendar year of 2017 will be observed as a “Year with Mary our Mother” in commemoration of the 100th anniversary of the apparitions of Our Blessed Mother, Mary in Fatima, Portugal.

 Therefore on Saturday, the 13th of May we will solemnly commemorate the occasion of the first apparitions in Fatima with a brief outdoor procession around Cathedral Square with the statue of Our Lady of Fatima into the Cathedral at 11:00 am. This will be followed by the recitation of the Holy Rosary including various languages (English, Portuguese, Spanish, Italian, Polish and French.) At 12:05 pm Bishop Tobin will celebrate Holy Mass in hour of Our Lady of Fatima, at which you are invited to concelebrate.

 I am writing to ask if you would kindly extend this invitation to your entire parish community.

This celebration in honor of the Blessed Mother should prove to be a truly joyful and grace-filled even for our Diocesan Church during this most special year dedicated to her honor.

 Wishing you a truly blessed Easter Season, I am,

 Sincerely yours,

Reverend Jeremy J Rodrigues

Director, Office of Divine Worship“

April 23, 2017

April 18, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

 I am pleased to welcome Bishop Robert B. Higgins to our parish to administer the sacrament of Confirmation. We are friends from our Air Force Chaplain days. Here is some information on the Bishop.

Bishop Higgins is Vicar for Veterans Affairs at the Archdiocese for the Military Services USA (AMS) where he is responsible for over 270 Catholic chaplains in 153 VA Medical Centers throughout the United States, Puerto Rico and Guam. Bishop Higgins also serves as the Bishop Protector for the 10,000 members of the Catholic War Veterans of America and shares responsibility for the Eastern Vicariate of the AMS.

Bishop Higgins was born 22 February 1944 in Longford, Ireland. He is a graduate of the Pontifical Lateran University in Rome and was ordained a priest for the diocese of Sacramento, California 9 March 1968. Following parish assignments in Roseville and Grass Valley Bishop Higgins entered the United States Air Force in September 1974 and served as a Catholic chaplain until his retirement in the grade of colonel in October 2004.

Bishop Higgins’ Air Force assignments included Lowry AFB, NAS Keflavik, Laughlin AFB, Bitburg AB, Malmstrom AFB, Air Command & Staff College, Maxwell AFB, RAF Lakenheath, Pope AFB, United States Air Force Academy, Nellis AFB, Headquarters United States Air Forces Europe, and Headquarters Pacific Air Forces. The bishop is a graduate of Air Command and Staff College and Air War College. His many military decorations include The Legion of Merit with one oak leaf cluster and the Meritorious Service Medal with seven oak leave clusters.

Bishop Higgins was named a Prelate of Honor (Monsignor) in 1996. In April of 2004 he was named titular bishop of Casa Calanae and auxiliary bishop for the Archdiocese for the Military Services by His Holiness Pope John Paul II. He was ordained a bishop 3 July 2004 in the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception, Washington DC and assumed his present duties 1 October 2004.

Bishop Higgins is a Knight Commander of the Equestrian Order of the Holy Sepulchre of Jerusalem, holds an Airline Transport Pilot Certificate and several Flight Instructor Certificates. He is also a seasoned motorcyclist and rides a BMW R1100RT.

Mons. Montecalvo


April 16, 2017 Easter Sunday

April 13, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

Happy Easter…

Today we gather around our newly lit Paschal candle. The flame of the Paschal candle leads us, draws us, to You, oh God!

The beautiful words of the Exsultet which proclaimed at the Easter Vigil reminds us, “This is the night that even now, throughout the world, sets Christian believers apart from worldly vices and from the gloom of sin, leading them to grace and joining them to His Holy one.

We pray this Easter, “That the light of Christ rising in glory dispel the darkness of our hearts and minds.”

St. Augustine wrote, “our hearts are restless until they rest in God.” We yearn for something greater than yourselves. We seek a light to guide us through the sometime gloomy circumstances of our daily lives.

When I was a young college seminarian and Fr. Robert Randall taught 2nd year college English, he taught us to appreciate the writings of Saint John Henry Newman. One of Saint Newman’s most popular poems is Lead, Kindly Light.

“Lead, Kindly Light, amidst the encircling gloom,

Lead thou me on!

The night is dark, and I am far from home,

Lead thou me on!”

Happy Easter…

Mons. Montecalvo


April 9, 2017 Palm Sunday

April 5, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,


Today we celebrate Palm (Passion) Sunday.  With the celebration of today’s Mass we enter into the solemn celebration of Holy Week.  The passion of the Lord dominates these solemn days.


In our diocese the Mass of Chrism is celebrated by Bishop Tobin and concelebrated by the clergy of the diocese.  Bishop Tobin continued the practice of celebrating the Mass of Chrism on Monday evening of Holy Week at 5:00 PM.  This Mass is a sign of unity and communion of the priests with their bishop.  The blessing of the Oil of the Sick takes place before the end of the Eucharistic Prayer, but the blessing of the Oil of Catechumens and the consecration of the Chrism take place after communion.  It is permitted to bless the three oils after the Liturgy of the Word. Our diocese blesses & consecrates the oils after the homily.


On Holy Thursday only one parish Mass is permitted.  Our Mass will be celebrated at 7:00 pm.  There is no morning Mass.  As you enter the Church please notice that the Holy Water fonts are empty until they are refilled with the blessed water from Holy Saturday Vigil.  Please notice that the Tabernacle is empty and a special side Altar of Repose is set up in the morning Mass chapel.  You may stay and pray before the Blessed Sacrament right after Mass or come back to pray.  Our church stays open till 10:00 pm.


It is customary to fast and abstain from meat on Good Friday.  If possible this fast can continue through Holy Saturday until after the Easter Vigil Mass on Holy Saturday evening.  The Vigil Mass cannot be celebrated until dark.  So no parish in the Diocese should start the Vigil Mass until 7:15 pm.  If at all possible please try to attend the Vigil Mass.  Although all Masses are important the Easter Vigil Mass is the Mass of the Year.


Please read the schedule and try to participate in our parish’s Holy Week Celebrations…..

Monsignor Montecalvo

April 2, 2017

March 28, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,

One of the many great devotions in the life of the Church is the Stations of the Cross.  For some reason the Church’s public praying the Stations usually is celebrated only during the season of Lent.  When I arrived at St. Sebastian’s I discovered that the Stations of the Cross were prayed on Monday evenings.


I have come to the conclusion that Monday evenings might not be the most convenient time to pray the Stations of the Cross.  Some parents already bring their sons and daughters to religious education classes on Mondays by 4 pm.  They find it difficult to get their son and daughter, have dinner and then return to St. Sebastian’s church either for Mass at 5:30 or for the Stations of the Cross at 6:00 p.m.  So I think next year I will change Stations of the Cross from Monday evenings to another night.


The Stations of the Cross tell a story.  They begin with the first Station of Jesus being condemned to death by Pilate.  Jesus is then forced to carry his cross (which should give us comfort as we struggle to carry the crosses we have in our lives).  During the Stations Jesus falls three times.  As sinners we too are weak and at times experience weakness in the face of temptations.  Jesus encounters different people along the way.  These people (Mary His Mother, Veronica, Simon of Cyrene, the women of Jerusalem, and Joseph of Arimathea)   remind us of the many kindnesses we receive from different people along of life’s journey. We also see Jesus stripped of his clothing, nailed to the cross, spit upon and humiliated.  There are many lessons we can learn as we watch Jesus experience these things in His life.  Jesus finally   dies on the cross. Jesus faces His death with conviction that God His Father would take care of Him even in death.


The Stations of the Cross is our story.  Please mark your calendars so you can attend Stations of the Cross on Good Friday when we celebrate this great meditation!    Let us walk this road together in Holy Week which is only two weeks away!


Mons. Montecalvo


March 26, 2017

March 21, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,


I would like to share with you some thoughts on the three basic Lenten disciplines.


  1. FASTING: Expresses our desire to find happiness in God rather than in the satisfaction of our physical needs. The control we gain over our appetites helps us recognize more deeply that all true and lasting pleasure comes from God. Knowing this, we are freed to gratefully accept food and savor it, or to avoid or limit foods that we know are unhealthy for us. Through fasting, our relationship to ourselves is reoriented to God.


  1. ALMSGIVING: Provides assistance to the poor among us and helps us recognize God as the true source of our security. Property and wealth exercise less control over us when we give away or share our wealth out of love for God and for others. Almsgiving is a way of bringing our relationship into the orbit of Christ’s love.


  1. PRAYER: Changes our relationship to God. Through prayer, we admit our need for a power that is greater than ourselves. We acknowledge our limitations and let go of the drive to control everything. In the process, we open ourselves to all that God has to offer us.


St. Padre Pio used to pray this prayer during Lent:

Stay with me, Lord,
because I am weak
and I need your strength.
You are my life
and without you
I am without fervor.
You are my light
and without you
I am in darkness.
Stay with me Lord,
for I desire to love you
and always be in your company.
Stay with me, Jesus, in life with all its dangers,
I need you. Amen.


Have a good week.

Mons. Montecalvo


March 19, 2017

March 13, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,



2017 Catholic Charity Appeal

“Faith and Good Works”


Supports Numerous Diocesan Ministries and Programs That Serve Over 200,000 Rhode Islanders Annually


It is the goal of every Catholic Charity Appeal ministry to continue the redemptive work of Christ in our world.


What We Do:

  1. We teach God’s truth
  2. We love our neighbor
  3. We serve with grateful hearts


Why We Do It:

  1. To promote peace and justice
  2. To proclaim the dignity of each person
  3. To share our values


How We Do It:

  1. Through numerous ministries and programs
  2. Through dedicated clergy, staff and volunteers
  3. Through living what we believe



Case Statement for the
Catholic Charity Appeal


The Catholic Charity Appeal is the main source of support for our diocesan agencies providing for the physical, educational, and spiritual needs of Rhode Islanders each year.

It is our responsibility to ensure that these agencies and programs have the resources available to help our brothers and sisters in need


Mons. Montecalvo


March 12, 2017

March 9, 2017

My Dear Parishioners,


2017 Catholic Charity Appeal

“Faith and Good Works”


Þ Because of you and your generosity to the annual Appeal, over 11,767 students and their families are served through the Catholic School Office. Thank you for your gift.


Þ At the Saint Martin de Porres Center in Providence, 9,680 elders and low-income families are served annually. Thank you for your gift to the Catholic Charity Appeal.


Þ Your support of the Catholic Charity Appeal will enable the Interfaith Community Dire Emergency Fund to continue to serve 29,500 clients annually. Thank you!


Þ Through your support of the Catholic Charity Appeal, 732 youth attended 8 multi-parish gathered thematic retreats from over 66 different parishes. Thank you for your generosity.


Þ Your support of the Catholic Charity Appeal helps 2,000 deaf and hard of hearing, 2,500 developmentally disabled and 800 blind individuals. Thank you for your generous gift!


Þ Your gift to the annual Appeal impacts the lives of 19,016 children and youth as well as 2,271 volunteer catechists and aides through the Office of Evangelization and Faith Formation. Thank you for your generosity!


Þ Your donation to the Catholic Charity Appeal impacts the lives of over 704 children who attended the Mother of Hope Camp in Chepachet. Thank you for your generous gift.


Case Statement for the Catholic Charity Appeal


The Catholic Charity Appeal is the main source of support for our diocesan agencies providing for the physical, educational, and spiritual needs of Rhode Islanders each year.

It is our responsibility to ensure that these agencies and programs have the resources available to help our brothers and sisters in need.


Mons. Montecalvo


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